The stuff nobody talks about
But probably should
There's no right place to start.
Pick the one that sounds like your brain today.
The farm gets everything. You get the scraps.
Your health. Your relationships. Your joy. Your rest. They all get whatever the farm didn't consume first. Which most days is nothing. Here's why the math doesn't work, and what to do about it
How to stop doing too much: the 3-priority rule for farmers
Ten priorities means zero priorities. When everything is important, nothing is. Here's the simple constraint that finally helped me make progress — and stop feeling guilty about everything I wasn't doing.
What's your minimum baseline? (How to survive when everything feels like too much)
You started playing on hard mode without realizing it. When your capacity is reduced but your expectations haven't adjusted, you need a minimum baseline - the absolute least you can do to keep things running while you recover.