The stuff nobody talks about
But probably should
There's no right place to start.
Pick the one that sounds like your brain today.
You're doing this completely alone. And it's a lot.
There's no one to hand the problem to. The fence breaks and you fix it. The animal is sick and you make the call. You're a solo farmer - and that's a particular kind of hard that doesn't get talked about enough.
You’ve lost friends to the farm
No fight. No falling out. Just slow drift. Missed texts. Skipped events. Friends who stopped inviting you because they learned you'd say no. You've lost people to the farm.